火曜日, 11月 24, 2009

my deepest sympathies


Oh, my.


I heard with deep regret of the passing of Lica's grandmother. Please accept my sympathy. I know that grief of losing a grandmother. I know how difficult to accept reality, but only time heals everything.
That's true.

When my mom passed away, my teacher told me that the first 3 years you are not able to accept your reality, but somehow you try to understand. After 5 years, you can talk "dear departed" in your mind naturally. Believe or not it's true. And after 10 years, you can talk about "dear departed" to everybody without tears. You don't need to try, it leaves to your mercy.


Don't worry your grandma will always be by your side not matter what.
If you lose your spirits, you grandma feels let down. Don't you make her happy?


Once again, may her soul rest in peace.

2 件のコメント:

Lica247 さんのコメント...

I'm truly grateful for your thoughtfulness.

Cana さんのコメント...

7th and 49th days after death, one year after, and more. Buddhism keep someone occupied. You are not able to be prostrated with sorrow. You'll be busy. Then I think you learn to cope with grief.
ねっ!